Wednesday, November 6, 2013

"I Need My Husband to Appreciate Me!"

Let's chat, ladies...

Here's a situation from biblical counselor Elyse Fitzpatrick.  Read it and tell me what you think: 

As a counselor I frequently hear from wives who believe they have a "need" to be appreciated by their husband.  What they say to me usually goes something like this: "My husband doesn't appreciate anything that I do for him.  Why, just yesterday I spent extra time making his favorite dinner, and I had the house and the kids nice and tidy when he got home.  He just walked in, turned on the television, and plopped himself down in front of a T.V. tray and gobbled up his food.  I don't think that he even noticed all that I had done for him.  I'm tired of not getting the strokes that I need.  In fact, I'm thinking that maybe I should leave him.  After all, I have a need to be appreciated.  My self-esteem is so low right now, I don't think I could stand another day with him." 
(Overcoming Fear, Worry and Anxiety, p.75)

Ok, let's pretend this woman is talking to you.  She's your really good friend.  Given that we've recently talked about how the state of your marriage is my business, how would you help your friend with this hurtful and frustrating situation?  Where in Scripture would you take her?  If you're in this very same situation, how do you deal with it?   

Ready. Set. Discuss.  

Sharing with: Wifey Wednesday, Deep Roots at Home, We Are THAT Family, Wedded Wednesday

47 comments:

  1. Looking forward to this discussion! While I have NEVER considered leaving my hubby over this- the fact is words of affirmation are my love language. I'm dying for more feedback of any kind on how I'm doing as a wife, mother, household manager, lover, money manager etc. Hubby tries to remember to tell me, he says he definitely thinks things like hey that was a great meal, and just doesn't think to say them out loud to me. I am aware I should be doing things as "unto the Lord, not for men". But it's so hard to stumble blindly with no feedback on whether I'm getting it right.

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  2. Sounds like she is a "words of affirmation" gal. It helps to look for other ways that he is saying he loves and appreciates her. On the flip side, "acts of service" may not be his primary love language so he likely didn't see what she had done for him.

    In her shoes, I would work to speak his love language often, communicate my needs clearly (at a good time in a kind way) and then serve him well without strings (yes, it can feel kind of scary). Generosity is about the heart of the giver, not a response to others' actions.

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  3. Did anyone else feel like this is subliminally selfish? I "need" to be appreciated? And if I don't get it I'm going to look for it somewhere else? I would lovingly tell a friend that the only praise you need is from God. Don't look to anyone else to make you feel right about what you're doing, or to feel special about what you're doing. Are you doing what you should be doing? Are you doing it out of complete, selfless, 1 Cor. 13 love? Then, you're good. Showing love to someone else, knowing that it's the highest calling in God's kingdom, should be the end of the line. Also, you are loved and appreciated by God. He calls you his child. Keep this thought deep in your heart and cling to it for all your worth. His love should be enough, and the outpouring through you will make you deeply satisfied. Serve in every area of your life, with a humble, kind spirit, and you will find peace... that passes all understanding.

    Love languages do matter, but are they so important that it makes your marriage suffer if you don't get yours spoken to you?

    And, if you wonder what your husband thinks about the things you do, or how you do them, ask him, point blank, and clearly. Don't wait for him to bring it up, or hope he'll guess one of these days. Because he won't. Picking up on subtleties is not in their nature. That's what we're for. :)

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  4. Can I ask how your communication is in general? Do you talk a lot about your relationship, family decisions, parenting, finances, etc? Every marriage is different, but I do think that talking about all those things on a regular basis, as a part of everyday life could help eliminate some of the confusion about whether he is satisfied with how you are doing all those things. And is he a man of few words in general? If he is, I would try to remember that he isn't deliberately trying to hurt you, it's just not natural for him to say it. It isn't personal, so to speak.


    Also, I've been realizing lately how little I have integrated the truth of the gospel into my practical life. After reading Elyse Fitzpatrick's book Found in Him, I think I'm finally beginning to understand what having a Savior who became a human means for me. Among other things, it means he understands what it's like to serve and be rejected or ignored. When you are feeling hurt for not being affirmed, it can be comforting to remember that Christ was not affirmed either. Also, ultimately we are called to do everything for the glory of God not for the praise of men even if wanting those words of affirmation is a desire that comes naturally to us.

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  5. I've been mulling over the "communicate my needs clearly" idea since I started writing a follow-up post to this one and basically wrote exactly that, but then I started thinking, "But what if my felt needs aren't really biblical?" While I think it's natural to desire praise and appreciation and affirmation, I'm not sure I can find a basis in Scripture for asking for any of those things without the request coming from pride and selfishness at its root.

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  6. Very good points! I think I need to read this book!

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  7. I think there is a legitimate and healthy kind of need to be acknowledged and appreciated. In the NT you see Paul and others acknowledging and thanking people for what they are doing. That said, I hear you about the pride and selfishness angle. It's probably just a matter of heart attitude.


    I love hearing that my husband appreciated the meal I just fixed, but if I need that to feel OK about myself or I want to demand appreciation, I'm probably heading for trouble.

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  8. Not derailing at all because you are absolutely right! The right thing for him to do would be to honor and cherish and appreciate his wife. But obviously, she cannot forcibly change him and since we're only interacting with her, it's more appropriate to focus on what can most help her to respond to him in a godly way and on what perspective she can have that would glorify God. Also, as long as she is focused on what she is not getting from her husband, she will always be harboring (and therefore probably demonstrating) bitterness.

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  9. I think that Paul was doing the right thing by demonstrating honor and respect and gratefulness in thanking people for what they were doing, but whether receiving that was an actual, biblical need on the part of the receivers is a different question. We are called to encourage each other but we're not called to demand it from others. I love when I hear appreciation too but like you said, if I find myself thinking I need it to be a godly wife, then I'm in trouble.

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  10. I just finished it...as soon as I write the review for John Morrison and the counseling team, you're welcome to borrow it.

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  11. I feel a bit like desiring appreciation or acknowledgement from your spouse is a bit of a different thing to if you desire appreciation from everyone you do something for. The relationship between husband and wife, forms from romance and then a bold commitment to spend life together. A huge level of appreciation is acknowledged in the early stages of life together, and because marriages begin this way, and it is a great time, I myself struggle when I can no longer recognise the relationship in this way. Simple acknowledgement for the small things helps me see that he's still happy with me. When there is an ongoing period where nothing is appreciated, it does make you wonder if he is happy. I feel like acknowledgement or appreciation from a spouse is not really a self-centred attitude, but more a communication that everything is on track, I love you and you love me kind of thing? I know that my efforts around the house or for our business are done as a "thank you for working so hard for us" babe.

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  12. I m ANGELINA from RUSSIA,My ex lover now [husband] is back and we are happily married with kids and i m here to gave thanks and appreciation to Dr MAXI the spell caster of maxispelltemple@yahoo.com for all the time He stood by me,for all the truth He make me see,for all the happiness He brought into my life,for all the wrongs He make right,for every of my dreams He make come through and for the help i found in Him,i am grateful and thankful unto Him,He was the one that helped me all,He never let me fall,He was the one that saw me through it all,He was .my source of strength when i was weak,He was my voice when i couldn`t speak,He was my eyes when i couldn`t see,He saw the pain wasn`t good for me,He lifted me were i couldn`t reach,i m everything i m today because You helped me,i m so happy my husband is back in my life at last,His email is maxispelltemple@yahoo.com,A temple were sorrows are dropped and happiness is gain in return.

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  13. My name is Janet my mail is gagslure@gmail.com I feel the same way as any other woman does with heartbreak/ Divorce. My issue was with his co workers he (husband) always is texting them even after I told him how I feel about it. He will stop for while and then start all over. He always tells me how fat and old these woman are but I dont know that. Today I have now found out he is setting up lunch dates with one of them. I no longer can take it. Why don't he just leave? I do not understand why he keeps doing this to me. He even comes home late after work now and he finally went away and broke up with me, well i been at Psychics and there was still no change. what should I do? until my friend introduced me to a spell caster that has helped to reunite her husband.

    The email of this spell caster is ORINOKOSOLUTIONTEMPLE1@GMAIL.COM you can contact him.

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  14. MY NAME is sonia from Florida. My husband left me for no reason on 24th of June 2011. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself. I've tried different spell casters and went to different people to big him but all to no avail. My life was very bitter and sorrowful. Then one day, a friend of mine told me about a DR' CUBA that is very good and does not even charge for his services, he said he gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lottery and he won 5 fives consecutively. I didn't believe it because I've worked with so many of them and it didn't work. He begged me further so I decided to try this great DR called CUBATEMPLE I contacted him and I gave him the necessary information. He didn't ask for anything but he said after the spell works, I can then voluntarily contribute to his orphanage home which I'm doing now with joy and happiness because I still didn't believe after he told me it will back until I used the spell he gave me and the next day which was on the 29th of July, 2012 I received a call and it was my darling husband Thomas. He apologized and came back to me crying for a second change and he even gave me 10,000USD as a means of compensating me on that very day before leaving. I'm now a very a happy woman and our marriage vows were renew again and ever since he has shown me love like never before. Thank you DR,CUBA I will forever be grateful to you. You can reach him on his email drcubateple@gmail.com. He can solve any problem you are facing now. Try him today and thank me later...

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  15. Dr CUBA recently brought my fiancée back to my life, after we have been composed for 8years. We have stayed living favorably without any delinquent. I always converse about matrimony with he but he replies me with, And promise me that we will soon get married. I was shock on a faithful day when she called me and told me that he is no longer interested in the relationship, because he met another woman, and they were almost getting married. I was stunned and dizzy after hearing that from him. I was so drained and tried to get back to myself because deprived of her it was dreadful because I truly love him with the whole of my emotion. Until I was fixed up to dr cubatemple whose email is drcubatemple@gmail.com I communicated with him and he guaranteed me that my wish will be settled unto me after 2 days, and she told me to count on his words, and he gave me every purpose why I have not to worry any longer. So that was how dr cuba came into my marital life and fetched my husband back to me after 2 days as dr cuba guarantee me, and now here I am affirming of his victorious works. And he also cast money spell for me that really well-ordered out for me. So I will recommend you to contact him once you are in need of magic spell. he is sincere and real to help you out..[drcubatemplr@gmail.com

    Miss patrick stella

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  16. Dr CUBA recently brought my fiancée back to my life, after we have been composed for 8years. We have stayed living favorably without any delinquent. I always converse about matrimony with he but he replies me with, And promise me that we will soon get married. I was shock on a faithful day when she called me and told me that he is no longer interested in the relationship, because he met another woman, and they were almost getting married. I was stunned and dizzy after hearing that from him. I was so drained and tried to get back to myself because deprived of her it was dreadful because I truly love him with the whole of my emotion. Until I was fixed up to dr cubatemple whose email is drcubatemple@gmail.com I communicated with him and he guaranteed me that my wish will be settled unto me after 2 days, and she told me to count on his words, and he gave me every purpose why I have not to worry any longer. So that was how dr cuba came into my marital life and fetched my husband back to me after 2 days as dr cuba guarantee me, and now here I am affirming of his victorious works. And he also cast money spell for me that really well-ordered out for me. So I will recommend you to contact him once you are in need of magic spell. he is sincere and real to help you out..[drcubatemplr@gmail.com

    Miss patrick stella

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  17. It's awesome and amazing. My name is Jerry Mike from
    the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected and
    could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years and
    we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed completely
    and turned away from me but i never knew what was going on, and i tried
    to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as time
    went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused. During
    my search for a way out, a
    friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell
    caster called Great Ovoko who helped him with his situation. I never use
    to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought
    it will work but i tried to give this
    man a chance and to my
    greatest surprise it got me a positive result and i was able to get my
    wife
    back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my
    wife
    fell so much in love with me unlike before. This spell casting isn't
    brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and
    needed her. Now i am a happy man again
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    real and his spells is so powerful. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and
    may your gods reward you for your good deeds.

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  18. I want to use this opportunity to thank Dr Kasee for helping me to get my boyfriend back after 3 months of breakup.My boyfriend breakup with me because he see another girl at his working place and told me he is no longer interested in me and live me pain and heart break.I seek for help on the Net and i saw so many good talk about this spell caster Dr Kasee of onimalovespell@gmail.com and i contact him also and explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me which i use to get back my boyfriend within the period of 3 days and i am so greatful to him for the good work he did for me,that is why i also want to let everyone who is in need out there to also seek help from him so he can help.His email is ONIMALOVESPELL@GMAIL.COM you can contact and he will help you.

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  19. Hello friends, an awesome and amazing testimony
    about a Great spell caster i really love to share. My name is Jerry Mike
    from the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected
    and could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years
    and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed
    completely and turned away from me and i never knew what was going on, i
    tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as
    time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused,
    and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain
    and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a
    friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell
    caster called Great Ovoko who helped him to solve his problem. I never
    use
    to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought
    it will work but i tried to give this
    man a chance and to my
    greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i
    was able to get my wife
    back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my
    wife
    fell so much in love with me unlike before. This spell casting isn't
    brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and
    needed her, and now i am a happy man again
    and do not know what to do for this Great spell caster and so i am using
    this opportunity to
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    just tell him your problems and he will help you because he is so real
    and powerful. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and may your gods always
    reward you for your good deeds.

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  20. My name is Lamis Ghazali i am from United States, I was i a relationship with Ben and we loved and cherished ourselves for 6 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14, a day i can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because i answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but i refused,and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and i begged him because i love him so much but he refused me i was so down cast and i felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a Dr OSIAN that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back,a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first i was scared but i have to give this man a trial because i love Ben very much and i am not willing to loose him to any woman,so i ordered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex is came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great Dr OSIAN of Goddess. if you need his help you can contact him on osianspelltemple@yahoo.com

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  21. be careful here nobody can help you here or even suggest how you can get your ex or love back,any testimonies of most spell caster here must be ignore.because most of them are scam i mean real scam which i was a victim and i got ripped of thousands of dollars because i was so anxious to get my wifeback after she left me for over 2 years with my 7 years old son jerry,i have applied to 7 different spell caster here and all to no avail they all ask for same thing send your name your ex name address and picture phone number etc which i did over and over again and most of them were from west africa until i saw a post about mama anita spell and i decided to gave her my last trail.she ask me four things my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and $180 and said my ex will come back in 24hours, i have paid over $3000 on spell casting and courier and nothing have work for me after 3 days i was thinking about how much i have lost so far so i said let me give her a try so i called her again and send my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and the $180 because i swear it was my last try so i was waiting as she told me to wait till next day and i could not sleep that night because i really love my wife and want her back at 9pm that day i saw my wife on line on face book and she said hi at first i was shock because she never talk with me for the past a year and 9 month now i did not reply again she said are you there? i quickly reply yes and she said can we see tomorrow i said yes and she went off-line i was confused i try to chat her again but she was no more on line i could not sleep that night as i was wondering what she is going to say, by 7.am the next morning she gave me a miss call i decided not to call back as i was still on shock again she call and i pick she said can we see after work today i said yes so she end the call immediately i got off work she call me and we meet and now we are back again i call mama anita the next day thanking her for what she has done in fact i still call her and thank her as my life was not complete without my wife please be careful here i have been scam thousands of dollars if you want a true love spell then contact mama anita (mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com)

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  22. Pualina42 USA in honest and in truth i wish to express my heartily regard to Dr OKORO of okorohomeofrefuge@gmail.com in his home there is no problem what a solution i never thought my husband will come back to me again until i contacted him for help he help me to reunite/re emerge my broken marriage of 6yrs by spell-casting today my husband is back and stick to me forever i am so happy i found a solution to my marriage problems of 6yrs and that is when i contacted you for help if he can do it for me he can also help you out in your marital/relationship problems...his email is okorohomeofrefuge@gmail.com

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  23. I am posting on this site on how a great Dr.help me bring back my ex husbandr after 9 months of divorce with two kids. I love him so much,so a friend of mine clara introduced this Dr to me who also help her. he did a spell to bring him back within 24 hours, now we are together no more fight and argument. my lover now loves me more than any thing in the wolrd Thank for helping me bring back my husband to me. If you need any help like

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  24. my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I
    caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I
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    help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their
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    he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to
    me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on
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    again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank
    you Dr aluda spell, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: aludaspelltemple@gmail.com

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  25. Hello friends, an awesome and amazing testimony
    about a Great spell caster i really love to share. My name is Jerry Mike
    from the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected
    and could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years
    and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed
    completely and turned away from me and i never knew what was going on, i
    tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as
    time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused,
    and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain
    and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a
    friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell
    caster called Great Ovoko who helped him to solve his problem. I never
    use
    to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought
    it will work but i tried to give this
    man a chance and to my
    greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i
    was able to get my wife
    back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my
    wife
    fell so much in love with me like never before. This spell casting
    isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and
    needed her, and now i am a happy man again
    and so i am using this opportunity to
    tell anyone having the same or similar problem to visit him on Ovokolovespell@gmail. com
    and he will help you because he is so real and trust worthy. Trust him
    because he is a very powerful spellcaster. Once again thank you Great
    Ovoko and may your gods always reward you for your good deeds.

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  26. Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, I came across a post online talking about how she got her ex back to her with the help of the great spell caster who happens to be high Dr Odudu that he helped her though i never believe this because i was just wondering how could this be, but i gave my self hope and i contact the spell caster. this is the unbelievable that has happened to me this December I was happily married and we had three kids, we lived together as one because we both loved each other but before i knew it, my husband started acting funny and cheating on me later on, he told me that he cannot continue with me so that was how he left me and my three kids without nothing but there was nothing i could do to stop him or bring him back to me I work so had to pay the children's schools fee and other responsibility i did this for good five years. I cry all day and night because i don't know what else to do to have my husband back to me until this faithful day i saw the post from one Miss Mary Jane Walker testifying how the high priest helped her to get her ex back I just wanted to try my luck because i never believe it will work but to my greatest surprise, am singing a new song i contacted the great priest on 2nd of December and he told me not to worry because once he finish caster the spell, that i will get my husband back the unbelievable happened on Friday when i got a call and I was surprise to hear my husbands voice apologizing to me that he is so sorry for keeping alone and came back home and we are happy together again wow, i really appreciate your good work great Dr Odudu God bless you and your good work for there is nothing else i can say than to tell the world about you. So if any one is out here seeing this post and you have similar issue like this, worry no more and contact the only man that can help you this email:odudutemple.spiritualist@yahoo.com, odudutemple.spiritualist@gmail.com or call +919650553766.

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  27. If you don’t believe in magic, I think you are mistaken. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve had my doubts, too. But then I found otubaspelltemple@yahoo.com I was having family problems with my husband, and a good friend of mine referred me to him. I owned a shopping plaza, and I was a little behind on bills. I had already sold half of my stocks and couldn’t afford to lose any more all in the name of seeking to get my husband back. if you know what I’m saying. I was in some real trouble with my husband.After Dr OTUBA cast a spell on me and i was able to get back my lost husband for year back, I was living easy. I no longer have to worry about my shopping plaza, and I also am increasing my stocks quantity quickly. I couldn't have done it without you doctor,you can contact via otubaspelltemple@yahoo.com

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  28. Hello friends, an awesome and amazing testimony
    about a Great spell caster i really love to share. My name is Jerry Mike
    from the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected
    and could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years
    and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed
    completely and turned away from me and i never knew what was going on, i
    tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as
    time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused,
    and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain
    and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a
    friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell
    caster called Great Ovoko who helped him to solve his problem. I never
    use
    to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought
    it will work but i tried to give this
    man a chance and to my
    greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i
    was able to get my wife
    back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my
    wife
    fell so much in love with me like never before. This spell casting
    isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and
    needed her, and now i am a happy man again
    and so i am using this opportunity to
    tell anyone having the same or similar problem to visit him on Ovokolovespell@gmail. com
    and he will help you because he is so real and trust worthy. Trust him,
    believe and listen to him. Do what he ask you to do because he is a
    very powerful spell caster. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and may
    your gods always reward you for your good deeds.

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  29. Hello friends, an awesome and amazing testimony
    about a Great spell caster i really love to share. My name is Jerry Mike
    from the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected
    and could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years
    and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed
    completely and turned away from me and i never knew what was going on, i
    tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as
    time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused,
    and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain
    and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a
    friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell
    caster called Great Ovoko who helped him to solve his problem. I never
    use
    to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought
    it will work but i tried to give this
    man a chance and to my
    greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i
    was able to get my wife
    back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my
    wife
    fell so much in love with me like never before. This spell casting
    isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and
    needed her, and now i am a happy man again
    and so i am using this opportunity to
    tell anyone having the same or similar problem to visit him on Ovokolovespell@gmail. com
    and he will help you because he is so real and trust worthy. Trust him,
    believe and listen to him. Do what he ask you to do because he is a
    very powerful spell caster. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and may
    your gods always reward you for your good deeds.

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  30. my name is Annmarie from CANADA, I want to thank the great EFE for what he did for me he brought happiness back into my life. My boyfriend left me and told me is over I was devastated as I loved him so much I decided to contact a spelI caster and I met a friend who told me of a great doctor and I decided to contact him and he told me in three days my boyfriend will call me and beg me to acept him I thought he was joking in three days everything happened as he said I am so happy now.You can also contact him at; efespelltemple@gmail.com for any kind of help, or call +2348106985072.

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  31. Hi, i am tracy from uk. Here is my amazing testimony about dr emua. After 9 years in marriage with my lovely wedded husband Steven, he divorced me and got separated from me and my kids, and left home to another lady. I did all i could to get him back, but they all proved abortive. Until one faithful day, an old friend of mine jane, who work at the same company with me, told me about a great spell caster on the Internet who helped her in a similar issue and also with financial problems too. At first, i doubted it, but I decided to give it a try. When i contacted him, he helped me cast a powerful binding lovers spell, and within 48 hours, my ex husband came back, pleading and apologizing to me, that he is so sorry for hurting me and my kids, and I forgive him. Today, we are so happy together, with abundant love, joy, happiness and riches. With our 3 kids, a boy and two girls. You too can contact this great and amazing spell caster today, on any problems you having now, via his private email: dremuahelphome@outlook.com or dremuahelphome@gmail.com.
    Thank you so much great one, I won't forget your good works on my family

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  32. indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life. Am
    Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem
    and still looking for a way out.

    1. Get your scam money back
    2. Bring back lost lover, even if lost for a long time
    3. Remove bad spells from homes, business & customer attraction etc.
    4. Get promotion you have desired for a long time at work or in your career.

    5. Read all your problems before you even mention them to him
    6. Remove the black spot that keeps on taking your money away
    7. Find out why you are not progressing in life and the solution

    8. Eliminate in family fights
    9. Ensure excellent school grades even for children with mental disabilities
    10. Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart
    11. I destroy and can send back the Nikolos (water spirit, sleepless nite,

    up presses by wicked powers,) if requested
    12. heal barrenness in women and disturbing menstruation
    13. Get you marriage to the lover of your choice
    14. Recover stolen property and whereabouts of people that hurt you.

    15. Bring supernatural luck into
    16. Pregnancy spell to conceive baby


    you can reach him here or if
    Interested Persons should contact me via E-mail :
    drsambolatemple@gmail.com



    Dr. Sambola

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  33. Michelle Nelly BrownMarch 20, 2014 at 1:23 AM

    I was so flabbergasted when I saw many testimonies about DR OLUBAM on the GOOGLE internet searching how he healed hiv, bring some one ex lover back and some wonderful works also and I decided to give him a try..i emailed DR OLUBAM telling him all my stories telling him how my family was be-witched and they also served some idols and those idols have take many of their family members lives…he told me that my family needs cleansing and restoration also which I told him that how are we going to do it now, he told me that I should send him the sum of $300 dollars to get the things needed for the cleansing and I was douBting that means what people have been saying about him are all fake and he wanna take my money which I don’t even know that what am thinking he has already know, he told me that he don’t need m y money but need me to be successful in life and I send the money to him the next day, he make some consultations with it and now my family is now one of the most happiest and successful family in world wide now, email dr at DR.OLUBAMSPELLHOME@LIVE.COM AND DR.OLUBAMSPELLHOME@GMAIL.COM FOR MORE HELP ALSO

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  34. Michelle Nelly BrownMarch 20, 2014 at 1:23 AM

    Hello I want to share a very wonderful testimony about DR OLUBAM who help me getting my ex back in between 48hrs, when I saw a testimony on net concerning DR OLUBAM I thought that it was a scam not knowing that he is real and he is great. I decided to email the great DR concerning my problem too and he told me that I showed not worry about my problem because it has an solution, he gave me a form to fill after filling the form he told me that there are some spell items and return love items that is needed to cast the love spell on me but is going to cost me some amount of money and which he told and I send the money to him because I was having full confidence on him that after everything, I will get my ex lover back and get married….after some 1hr DR called me that I should buy some things there in my own country and burn them to ashes which I did according to his command and between an twinkle of an eye my ex came back to me started apologizing for the wrongs and the pains he put me through and now we are now happily married with a kid..thanks to dr. OLUBAM for his marvelous work in my life. Email him now at DR.OLUBAMSPELLHOME@GMAIL.COM AND DR.OLUBAMSPELLHOME@LIVE.COM FOR HELP ALSO……

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  35. Michelle Nelly BrownMarch 20, 2014 at 1:23 AM

    I am sharing this wonderful testimony to the whole universe of the earth concerning the wonderful works of DR OLUBAM, for what he has been doing in many people lives and also my also. I was having a greater challenge on my lover who I loved with the whole of my hearts not knowing that he was charmed by another girl who he is dating outside me….when I was seeing the challenges that is now befalling me and I can’t even cope with them anymore then I decided to email DR OLUBAM for some reproach and some consultations also….he told me that I don’t have anything to worry about because I am in the right place…he told me that there are some items that is needed to cast the love and binding spell together but is going to cost me some money which he told me and I send the money to him and he promised to give me reply between an hour time…when it was that time exactly, he called me that there are some things and words I have to pronounced by myself because my faith is going to set me free which I did according to his instruction….after some minutes my lover called me and was apologizing that he doesn’t know what go on with him that he was bewitched…so right now as I am writing and sharing this testimony my husband is now a humble man and respect himself well and also give me the maximum respect he has for me…….THIS IS THE DR EMAIL AT (DR.OLUBAMSPELLHOME@GMAIL.COM AND DR.OLUBAMSPELLHOME@LIVE.COM) WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF OLUBAM

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  36. Hello my name is Cassandra from Canada, My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr.kizzekpe and after I explained my problem. In just 3 days, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have brougth to the family. We solved our sues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr.kizzekpe, i really appreciate the love spell you cast for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank you once again at (kizzekpespells@outlook.com.). in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is kizzekpespells@outlook.com.

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  37. Hello
    My name is faith jessica from England, i am 32 years old and i
    sincerly want to thank a great spell caster called Dr edaho who helped me to
    bring back my wife after she had left me and my kids for good two years and
    six months.
    through out that year and six months i and my two kids called kate and
    wilson were in great suffering until one day i came in contact with this
    powerful great spell caster who decided to wipe out tears away from eyes.
    According to my problem He decided to perform a spell service
    immediately and all other necessary things that has to be done an after the
    spell had been done He told me to wait for just 40 hours that the spell
    will start to take effect and so i believed and i waited for the time he
    had said.
    To my greatest surprise , exactly the 40 hours that he had said i
    recieved a call and when i picked the call it was my wife pleading and also
    asking for forgiveness, at first i was amazed but later i came back to my
    mood and i decided to hang on the phone on her but when i terminated the
    call she keep on calling an i decided to switch off the phone.
    To my greatest surprise around 6:30am in the morning i heard my door
    bell ringing and i decided to open the door , to my surprise i saw my wife
    kneeling and begging me to forgive so i decided to forgive her and i
    ordered her up an i embrace her. This was how i got my wife back with the
    help of the great Dr edaho.
    viewers willing to contact him or anyone with the same problem or any
    kind of problem should simply contact him on this email (
    edahospellcaster@yahoo.com
    ). contact him at anytime and he is ready
    to help>>>>> HE IS A MAN TO BE TRUSTED>>>> once again THANK YOU THE GREAT
    DR edaho

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  38. he help me got my husband back,1) If you want your ex back.(2) if you looking for a child. (3)penis or breast enlargement,kidney problem,asthma, diabetes,stroke. contact him via oduwalegba@outlook.com or +2348165061583

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  39. hello every one i have just met with this
    priest of the ojokunlovespell@gmail.com
    and i finally find out that he is really a
    truthful spell caster and so powerful and he
    is the most powerful spell caster that i have
    ever met. i wish i have met him before. and
    my husband have just come back to me and
    every thing happened just the way he had
    said it i am so happy that i have met with
    him and now i have my husband back to my
    self. if you all that are here have not tried
    him you just have to do so and get your
    heart desires fulfilled. stop been doubting i
    have tested him and i am now a fulfilled
    woman. sidney huster REUNITING EX SPELL
    TEMPLE IS GREAT.THANK YOU FOR THE
    HAPPINESS YOU BROUGHT ON ME. you can
    reach him if need be at
    ojokunlovespell@gmail.com

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  40. droboitespelltempleApril 10, 2014 at 10:33 PM

    A GREAT MAN THAT HELP ME droboitespelltemple@gmail.com MY EX IS BACK NOW AM A HAPPY WOMAN TODAY

    My name is Sheryl Chablis, I have been through hell and pain,looking
    for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my husband back.I
    have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell
    casters.until i found the real and great spell caster (DR.oboite) who
    helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my husband who left me
    since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who
    was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her
    since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same
    DR.oboite Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you
    need to do now is to contact him when ever you are in any problem
    related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i
    could get this real and great spell caster.So right now is here,and the
    best for you to solve your problems all thanks goes to
    droboitespelltemple@gmail.com just free the institution that he will
    give to you just do the institution and everything is going to be fine
    with you this man really help me, am now a happy woman with my husband
    if you are there pass through any problem email him
    droboitespelltemple@gmail.com just free but you we have to share his
    testimony after the spell have be cast okay email him:
    droboitespelltemple@gmail.com

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  41. my name is nali am from ukraine i want to inform you about the man that brought my lover back when i lost him great Dr odudu wipe away my tears with his power contact him when you are in terrible situation his the real man powerful man i have ever see in my life contact him on oduduspell@gmail.com or call +2348051913076.i which you good luck as you contact the man that wipe away my tears after seven years of relationship contact him for your situation to turned around for good via oduduspell@gmail.com or call +2348051913076

    NALI from ukraine

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  42. Hello to every one out here, am here to shear my ON unexpected miracle that has happen to me three days ago, I came across a post online talking about how she got her ex back to her with the help of the great spell caster who happens to be high Dr ODUDU that he helped her though i never believe this because i was just wondering how could this be, but i gave my self hope and i contact the spell caster. this is the unbelievable that has happened to me this APRIL I was happily married and we had three kids, we lived together as one because we both loved each other but before i knew it, my husband started acting funny and cheating on me later on, he told me that he cannot continue with me, so that was how he left me and my three kids without noting but there was noting i could do to stop him or bring him back to me I work so had to pay the children's schools fee and other responsibility i did this for good five years. I cry all day and night because i don't know what els to do to have my husband back to me until this faithful dey i saw the post from one miss Nicole testifying how DR ODUDU helped her to get her ex back I just wanted to try my luck because i never believe it will work but to my greatest surprise, am singing a new song i contacted the great DR ODUDU on 2nd of APRIL and he told me not to worry because once he finish caster the spell, that i will get my husband back the unbelievable happened on Friday when i got a call and I was surprise to hear my husbands voice apologizing to me that he is so sorry for keeping alone and came back home and we are happy together again wow, i really appreciate your good work great Dr ODUDU God bless you and your good work for there noting els i can say than to tell the world about you. So if any one is out here seeing this post and you have similar issue like this, worry no more and contact the only man that can help you this email:ODUDUSPELL@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348051913076 GOOD LUCK AS YOU CONTACT HIM

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  43. time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused, and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell caster called Great DR ODUDU who helped him to solve his problem. I never use to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought it will work but i tried to give this man a chance and to my greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i was able to get my wife back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my wife fell so much in love with me like never before. This spell casting isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and needed her, and now i am a happy man again and so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having the same or similar problem to visit him on oduduspell@gmail.com and he will help you because he is so real and trust worthy. TRUST HIM AND DON'T ASK TOO MANY QUESTIONS, BELIEVE AND TRUST HIM IF YOU REALLY WANT HIM TO HELP YOU, AND DO WHAT HE ASK YOU TO DO BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT I DID I JUST OBEYED AND NOW I AM A HAPPY MAN AGAIN AND SO I AM JUST ADVISING YOU TO DO THE SAME SO THAT YOU CAN ALSO BE A HAPPY PERSON AGAIN. HE IS VERY REAL AND POWERFUL. Once again thank you Great DR ODUDU and may your gods always reward you for your good deeds.

    EMAIL ODUDUSPELL@GMAIL.COM

    TEL +2348051913076

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  44. who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me
    and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others
    said it was impossible. my name is Michael i live in Chicago i am happily
    married with two kids and a lovely wife something terrible happen to my
    family along the line, i lost my job and my wife packed out of my house
    because i was unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular
    time. i manage all through five years, no wife to support me to take care
    of the children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in
    my life i met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he
    took me to a spell caster and and the name of the temple is called, DR
    Okundonor, i was assure that everything will be fine and my wife will come
    back to me after the wonderful work of Dr Okundonorgreatspell, my wife
    came back to me and today i am one of the richest man in my country. i
    advice you if you have any problem email him with this email:
    dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com and you will have the best result. take
    things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best.

    Contact: dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com

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  45. Hello my name is john,I know a great spell caster who helped me when I
    had problem with my wife if you need a right place to solve your
    problems contact DR WISEMANREVEALSPELL is the right choice. he is a great
    man that have been casting spells with years of experience. he cast spells
    for different purposes like.

    Contact. WISEMANREVEALSPELL@GMAIL.COM

    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) Herbal care.

    Contact . WISE on: WISEMANREVEALSPELL@GMAIL.COM

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  46. Unimaginable and unbelievable. I am Mary Smith from the United States
    and i have a good news to share to the entire world. Do you need your
    ex husband or lover urgently? I wanna tell you that you need not to
    worry because i have a good news for those out there that are faced or
    similar to such situation because there is always a hope and a solution
    to all problem. There is a great spell caster called Great Owologbo who
    can really solve your problem. Getting my lover back is what i can't
    imagine but when I was losing Jackson, I needed help and somewhere to
    turn badly but my Aunty told me about this spell caster who also helped
    her on the internet. I thought it won't work but i just tried to give
    this man a chance and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Two days later, my phone
    rang. Jackson was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not
    only come back, the spell caster opened him up to know how much I loved
    and needed him. This Spell Casting isn’t brainwashing, but he opened up
    his eyes to know how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone
    who is in my old situation to try him because he will help you and make
    things be the way it ought to be. If you have such problem or similar
    to this, please contact him on his email Greatowologbospelltemple@yahoo.com thank you Great Owologbo and may your gods reward you for your good deeds..

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